tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4677975708066818438.post2146279262942185784..comments2023-11-05T03:34:06.495-08:00Comments on Songs From His Nÿghtbird: Sometimes, There Just Isn't a Titlelittle girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17239564937960323449noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4677975708066818438.post-37382779827269250182015-04-11T10:54:01.313-07:002015-04-11T10:54:01.313-07:00Thank you, my friend. It was hard to write. The w...Thank you, my friend. It was hard to write. The whole time, I felt like my heart was going to thump out of my chest. I'm so sorry to hear that you know someone who shares a similar experience. You are right, no one should have to experience that.<br /><br />So glad to see you here;-)little girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17239564937960323449noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4677975708066818438.post-25398805873087771972015-04-10T22:44:39.420-07:002015-04-10T22:44:39.420-07:00Wow. I bet that was hard to write. I wish that no...Wow. I bet that was hard to write. I wish that nobody ever experienced that. I'm close to someone who had a similar experience and it changed his life, too. Congratulations for working through it. You go, girl.<br />rsordidnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4677975708066818438.post-63556586308094181602015-03-20T15:21:28.251-07:002015-03-20T15:21:28.251-07:00Pearl, Thank you so much. You have no idea how mu...Pearl, Thank you so much. You have no idea how much that means. <br /><br />I know exactly what you are talking about too. When I read the blogger's post that prompted me to write this, I had to go back to her blog several times over a couple days trying to find the words to comment and each time I tried...I was completely shaken. That's when I knew it was time for me to get it off my own chest. <br /><br />And I don't think it was just about me learning to let Heron in. I think it's been as much about letting other people in too:) <br /><br />I'm thankful for all the support you and everyone has shown. I was really worried that it might have just been too much information. <br /><br />xx Hugslittle girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17239564937960323449noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4677975708066818438.post-40120677992239802112015-03-20T15:11:17.999-07:002015-03-20T15:11:17.999-07:00Thank you slave guenivere!! And you are absolutel...Thank you slave guenivere!! And you are absolutely right...I have really learned over the years that we all have our own crossed to bear. Yet another example of how submission doesn't mean we are weak...it's actually quite the opposite:)<br /><br />Hugs to you xxlittle girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17239564937960323449noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4677975708066818438.post-29516159073063892642015-03-20T15:07:38.853-07:002015-03-20T15:07:38.853-07:00I'm glad that I could finally share it. It wa...I'm glad that I could finally share it. It was something that I have tried to do since I first started my blog...you know to give a complete perspective and history but just couldn't do it. Thanks for all your support:)<br /><br />xxlittle girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17239564937960323449noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4677975708066818438.post-66121757161915333422015-03-19T18:55:21.609-07:002015-03-19T18:55:21.609-07:00lg,
I have started this comment 5 different ways a...lg,<br />I have started this comment 5 different ways and none seem to impart the respect and caring I want to send your way.<br /><br />Thank you for hitting publish.<br /><br />I think that as bloggers we sometimes forget that there are decades of hardships and joys that we will never know about our blogland friends- this space mostly does not allow for that. With just knowing this about you- I can't believe it ONLY took you 20 years to let someone in. That is a heavy burden- too much for one heart- I am happy for you that you do have Heron to carry that load with, and for, you.<br /><br />A sincere thank you for sharing this with us. Pearl Necklacehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11455120796148571047noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4677975708066818438.post-72310437490685694982015-03-19T18:11:06.385-07:002015-03-19T18:11:06.385-07:00Thank you for sharing! At this stage of our dynami...Thank you for sharing! At this stage of our dynamic it's so nice to feel normal haha...to know that what we do and how we live isn't all fantasy. ..I believe we all have our own trauma that shapes us...and to know we got where we are and not only survived but are healing and thriving is so amazing! Keep it up Lg! slave gueniverehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06018625233982640731noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4677975708066818438.post-5867298234110399492015-03-19T16:56:51.035-07:002015-03-19T16:56:51.035-07:00Oh my goodness, this is so raw. Thank you for sha...Oh my goodness, this is so raw. Thank you for sharing. I can't imagine how hard it was for you, back then and now. Hugs. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4677975708066818438.post-32416506404528309522015-03-19T14:41:10.146-07:002015-03-19T14:41:10.146-07:00Misty, I'm glad that you can relate but not ...Misty, I'm glad that you can relate but not glad for whatever happened in your life that caused that. <br /><br />You know I am always an email away if you ever want to talk about it. I know you are kind of taking a break from blogging but know that I miss you.<br /><br />xx little girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17239564937960323449noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4677975708066818438.post-53856477370551572132015-03-19T14:35:40.824-07:002015-03-19T14:35:40.824-07:00Hi Blackbird! Thank you so much for stopping by a...Hi Blackbird! Thank you so much for stopping by and taking the time to leave such kind words. And wow, what a post for your first visit here. I promise they are not all that dark:) I hope you like it here and will continue to visit.<br /><br />Hugsxxlittle girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17239564937960323449noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4677975708066818438.post-42844516011555716602015-03-19T08:28:07.186-07:002015-03-19T08:28:07.186-07:00Our traumas are very different, but I can relate t...Our traumas are very different, but I can relate to so much of what you've said...I relate to the residual. <br /><br />I want to say more and I really want to give you a hug, alas I cannot do either, but know that I think you are both amazing for making it through such a horrible experience together. It is beauty born from ashes. Mistyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07931554793023459482noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4677975708066818438.post-10836695678849021822015-03-19T01:34:46.313-07:002015-03-19T01:34:46.313-07:00Hi there lg
I'm not anonymous, I'm Blackb...Hi there lg<br /><br />I'm not anonymous, I'm Blackbird but couldn't find how to comment at such! Ronnie Soul had your blog mentioned on her site and so I came by. What a moment to read about your life! You are really brave to have come through all that doubt about opening up to Heron. It's extremely moving. Trust is so very hard after a trauma.<br /><br />All the best<br />BBxxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4677975708066818438.post-15623503046060165922015-03-18T19:53:43.651-07:002015-03-18T19:53:43.651-07:00Hugs back to you HS:) And thank you!
It wasn&#...Hugs back to you HS:) And thank you! <br /><br />It wasn't easy to share but I'm glad that I could finally open up about it. I think it was just one final step, like you said in truly letting go and enjoying my life. It's not something that you can really just talk about openly. Talk about awkward...people just don't know what to say. LOL So I thought...well I come to my blog to process stuff...why not this? <br /><br />And you know...in writing my posts, I have no problem talking about the sex or scenes but the emotional stuff, I really struggle and I think this experience is part of the reason why. <br /><br />xx<br />little girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17239564937960323449noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4677975708066818438.post-11099829847461430832015-03-18T19:45:11.708-07:002015-03-18T19:45:11.708-07:00Thank you, DtBHC. I do believe that it takes on m...Thank you, DtBHC. I do believe that it takes on more significance for Heron as well because he knows the challenges I faced to get to the point where I could admit that I needed and wanted his control. <br /><br />I'm so very sorry to hear about your daughter. I'm sure that is extremely painful as a parent and hopefully she is getting better. Mine went through very disturbing panic attacks and that was bad enough. My thoughts are with you.little girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17239564937960323449noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4677975708066818438.post-5744811928700507952015-03-18T18:28:55.379-07:002015-03-18T18:28:55.379-07:00Hugs. I'm so proud of you! It may have taken ...Hugs. I'm so proud of you! It may have taken years, but you have regained control of your life and are allowing yourself to enjoy it. It's not easy to share what you have. It's not easy to allow yourself the possibility of that pain by letting go. <br /><br />Hugs. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4677975708066818438.post-35648703499160274132015-03-18T16:07:49.415-07:002015-03-18T16:07:49.415-07:00Hi lg, that is just so tragic a thing to have occu...Hi lg, that is just so tragic a thing to have occurred and I understand why it would be hard to talk about. You are so brave in sharing this. I hope that your healing continues. I am amazed at how much emotional turmoil people deal with in their lives and still function. We've had problems with our daughters’ mental health including self harm which challenged my core beliefs and left an indelible change on the way I live my life.<br /><br />Your deep attraction to Heron and your need for his control takes on so much more significance knowing this. Take care.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00587283081895557018noreply@blogger.com