I have always been a people watcher, but it seems even more so lately. Living in a Master/slave relationship, I find the interactions between couples and their demeanor and body language towards each other is all quite fascinating.
There were times that it was so blatant, it even made me a bit uncomfortable, particularly when their husband looked up and kind of shrugged like...oh well.
I realize they don't live in the dynamic that my Husband and I have so it's not fair of me to judge their actions but I did take a good hard look at myself and was pretty ashamed at what I saw there. Unfortunately, I used to speak to Him in the same manner.
How horrible it sounded now that I was listening to it as a bystander!
Behavior in public was one of the things Master addressed with me early on in our dynamic.
Never speak disrespectfully to Him or about Him.
Make myself useful to the host/hostess.
As I looked around, it felt good to know that my actions and attitude were pleasing to Him and served as a positive reflection on us both, even if no one else noticed.